To be busy is almost a badge of pride for most men. Yet is it really? Is it better to be busy or is there something else you want to focus on? If it is something else then why do we focus on being busy? Why is busy what we want to do and not the other thing?
The fallacy of busy
Being busy is not the goal we want. Whether we are running our own business or helping another person achieve their goals by being an employee. Being busy is wasting energy and time.
I came across a thought about how busy is showing up in noticeable ways as I was writing this week’s blog post and it is more of a conspiracy theory however it also shows a point. My thought was
The interesting thing about all of the system that has unemployed people acting like they are busy is actually keeping the useless time wasters out of our way. Yet they are missing out. They believe they are working the system so they don’t have to work yet the satisfaction a person gets from being productive is so much greater than just getting a check. to even get $600 a week for unemployment is a mere pittance when you look at the potential money and satisfaction one gets from actually accomplishing something. So with my social commentary out of the way. Let’s dive into why being busy honestly doesn’t serve you while Your productivity is the brass ring you want to aim for.
Why you are busy but not productive – The Relaxed Male April 5, 2023
Busy is to avoid the thoughts of the results you are having.
When you are busy you appear to not only those around you but to yourself too that you’re doing something. and you are doing something. You are moving around. You are making lots of evidence that you are not standing still. Yet, motion doesn’t mean productive. I can walk around in a circle in my backyard. That is motion, all that I am producing is a round place in the backyard where there is no grass. Now if that is my objective, then Yay! However, I am sure that objective doesn’t serve me. So being busy is a waste of time and energy.
That is the drawback you have to contend with your thoughts
How to stop being a busy little bee?
To have the ability to stop being busy you have to have a purpose. Not so much a life’s purpose though that does help but what are you accomplishing today? That is what you want to find out. Give yourself a purpose. So stop being a busy bee and be a productive beaver.
Plan your day
Make a plan, and schedule what you want to achieve for today. This is a scorecard of what you try and the results you get.
After you have made a schedule of what you want to accomplish then do it. You will fight with yourself over how tired you are. what’s holding you back, and lots of other thoughts. That is your mind wanting you to stop and go back to the old way. This is where you have to pat your little mind on the head and say thanks for looking out for me but I want this. Then get to work.
Monday Hour One
This is how you get more done in a day than a normal person. Monday Hour One takes your focus and applies a magnifying glass to it. So suddenly you have the power of the sun focused on your task.
Create a todo list
Decide what is most important
Grab your scheduler
Schedule the important times first
Now put your to-do list in. from the most important to the least.
Now observe all the thoughts you are going to have about why it isn’t going to work.
The Next Step
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