Did you know there is more than one intimacy? Yeah, there are, depending on who you talk to, around 5 to 10 different types of intimacy and I am surprised about this revelation. Because according to Choose Therapy, there are the following
- Physical
- Emotional
- Intellectual
- Spiritual
- Experiential
- Social
- Creative
- Conflict
- Aesthetic
- Work
So what is Aesthetic Intimacy?
It is when you have a shared appreciation of the beauty of something with another person. that is you and your wife seeing and sharing in the awe of something beautiful or not beautiful. This is the experience of seeing with another person. This is a part of having an experienced but you are sharing that visual and auditory experience with your wife. This allows you and her to come together over a common view of beauty.
Is it important to have Aesthetic Intimacy?
Yes because the experiences that we have are all apart of having the relational intimacy we crave. This is a part of the experience of us going through life together. We want to share our life with our spouse. Those small fleeting moments are what allows us to connect and have something in common with each other. This includes us not agreeing with want is beautiful. It is with the experiance of the beuty that is important.
How to build your aesthetic Intimacy
When it comes to having aesthetic experiances you have to go out and have those experainces. There may be places that you know you will find a breath taking sunrise
Find Beautiful experiences.
Go out and look for beauty
Be intentional with the experiences
This is another Subcategory of Experiential Intimacy
Links
Podcast 2.0 Apps – https://www.relaxedmale.com/newapps
Mastering the Storm – https://www.relaxedmale.com/stormmaster/
