Now I am feeling alone… i got divorced 3 years ago…, and I also want to new journey in my life ..like finding new friends and starting new business, etc
First, what has been holding you back?
Understand what a thought is.
A thought is a sentence in your mind.
Many times a thought is created as a means to keep you safe and warm on the couch. I will come up with all these lies, ie. excuses, as a means to protect you. Your mind knows that yeah it would be nice to have all that you desire but if it requires you to be uncomfortable and possibly be seen as a fool then never mind your mind would rather be fat sick and immobile.
- You have to do a lot of introspection on yourself.
- You have to reject the whole I don’t know indulgent thought.
Examine every excuse and reason you think of
Know what actually motivates you
- Avoid Pain
- Seek pleasure
- Do so as efficiently as possible
Steps to take action
Now there are many steps you can take. But they all involve the same main points.
First, build up your 4 pillars of a Relaxed Male
Man’s Mind
Never stop learniing
Man’s Body
Get into shape. Start looking like a man who gives a crap about himself
Man’s Soul
Find something that drives you. Women call this finding themselves. So man get out there and find yourself. Find out what moves you. What gets you out of bed in the morning
Man’s Community
Start building this by finding people you want to meet
Then, have a plan and execute it
Been divorced for 3 years and want to start a new journey.
Great how are you going to do that? What does a new journey look like to you?
How do you find friends?
Great how are you going to do that
How do you start a new business?
What are you wanting to do?
Finally, Be Ready to Fail Early and Fail Often.
its is a numbers game the more fails you rack up the more successful you will get.
