How do you look at a problem you are facing? So many times we see a problem coming our way and we freeze. Our minds instantly decided that it just isn’t possible to get past. Many men just stop trying because they have told themselves that the problem can’t be fixed. It is impossible.
Today sadly many young adults are doing this very thing. They give up on even trying to make ends meet. They sit on their duffs and complain that it’s not fair that they have to go out of their house and go to work every day. These young people say how unfair it is. that they have to go to work just so they can eat what they want to eat. They should be taken care of by somebody else.
Now this is a multi-level problem that we are facing. We have parents that. stand around and complain about that problem to their kids. Those parents are often single parents, but not always. Then you have the education system that adds to the perceived fact that these kids are instantly victims of a system that isn’t for them. Then add the college system and you have a child who never had to think for themselves. and we wonder why they are anxiety-ridden, complaining about how they can’t find happiness. They were never shown how happiness is created by them. Instead, these young bundles of nerves and anxiety are thrown out into a world that they were not prepared for.
So if these young people can’t fend for themselves little easy-to-fix problems become huge ogres that torment their life day in and day out. Suddenly rent or a mortgage is a hassle. The thought of food should be a human right is bandied about. Yet to see that you are able to do hard things each day of each week of each month of each year is what makes you an amazing human.
So this week’s video is one of my favorite humans on the earth. and he gives a little talk about how you can make the impossible possible. You can find happiness and fulfillment. That fulfillment can happen when you want it. That divorce you are faced with. You can come out of it. A whole man. A man whose life is now better because you went through that fire of discomfort. You will rebuild. You are stronger and wiser for it, and you now know how to not be a victim because you know that you don’t give up your power to those around you. You live your life on your terms and you have a good woman beside you who has your back. That is all possible.
