We are going to have conflicts with other people in our lives. How we resolve them says a lot about us. Nice guys will often avoid conflict and try to manipulate the situation to get out of a situation. While jerks will often point blame on others.
Yet there are ways you can resolve conflicts and build respect at the same time. This week’s video does just that by showing you some ways that help with conflicts and helping you and the other person to hash out the problem and become stronger from it.
- dont get defensive
- stop pointing fingers
- listen
- being with I
- Tame the emotions
- show you are open to compromise
- don’t talk behind the back
- don’t take it personally
- nonverbal communications
- resolve the conflict over being right
- apologize
- focus on the present
- Use humor
