The Correlation of the withdrawal of dads and The Lack of masculinity
In the US, divorce rates more than doubled from 2.2 per 1,000 in 1960 to over 5 per 1,000 in the 1980s.
Marriages are decreasing
Lack of dads and the increase of anxiety-ridden children
Great Society – 1964
The government started taking the place of Fathers in the household and the marriage rates started to decrease in the 80’s around 20 years for the new generation to start having kids.
Dad’s the Disciplinarian
Dads the Mentor
Dad baggage
links
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322877#Is-anxiety-increasing-in-the-U.S.?
For instance, a meta-analysis published in 2010 took data from studies that included over 77,000 young people; the scientists found generational increases in mental health issues in 1938–2007.
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/marriage_rate_2018/marriage_rate_2018.htm
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Summary
In this episode of The Relaxed Male, the host, Bryan Goodwin, discusses the crucial role that dads play in their children’s mental well-being. He addresses the issue of dads being overlooked in the parenting process and the favoring of mothers in the court system. While recognizing the importance of moms, Bryan emphasizes the need for dads to be actively present in their children’s lives. Brian challenges common arguments against father involvement and highlights the benefits of having both parents actively participate in raising a child. He also delves into the historical context, discussing how social welfare programs have impacted marriage rates and subsequently led to a decline in mental health. The main speaker then shifts the focus to concerns about the mental well-being of younger generations, particularly millennials and Gen Z.
They reference an article from Business Insider that raises alarm about Gen Zers bringing their parents to job interviews, suggesting a lack of independence and fortitude among this generation. Bryan argues that society lacks involved fathers, not just married men, but fathers who feel excluded or unwanted by women. They assert that this lack of father involvement contributes to the increase in mental health problems. While acknowledging that women can raise good kids without a dad, they emphasize the importance of having a father figure in a child’s life. The roles of a father as a disciplinarian and provider of roughhousing play are highlighted as crucial for teaching restraint and discipline. Bryan criticizes the degradation of the role of dads in society, attributing it to the rise of toxic masculinity as a concept. They assert that toxic masculinity is not synonymous with masculinity itself but rather the absence of proper masculinity. The speaker believes that boys require male role models to learn what it truly means to be masculine.
Addressing the issue of homelessness, Bryan argues that the absence of fathers in homes contributes to the problem. They suggest that living outside the city can be a more affordable option despite additional commuting costs. The speaker contends that homelessness has become comfortable for some individuals due to society’s sympathies, emphasizing the need for discipline and mentorship from fathers. The importance of mentorship is further emphasized, as Bryan suggests that fathers should transition into becoming mentors for their children from the age of 13. Concern is expressed over the increasing number of girls identifying as boys and vice versa, with the speaker emphasizing the unique challenges faced by individuals of both genders.
In the podcast, Bryan also discusses how kids are becoming more susceptible to manipulation and coercion, resulting in irreversible harm. They highlight the importance of waking up to these issues and taking action to protect children from the woke agenda. Taking funds away from schools is presented as an effective way to change teaching approaches, and the failed voucher program in Oklahoma is mentioned as an example.
Bryan encourages dads to fight for their children and make sacrifices to be closer to them. They challenge the idea of being just an employee and suggest taking on bigger projects to generate income. The speaker offers a coaching package to help dads be better men and mentors for their children, with limited availability and a discounted price mentioned. The podcast concludes with Bryan providing contact information and encouraging listeners to reach out for assistance if needed.
00:00:00 The Importance of Dads for Kids’ Mental Health
00:01:44 The Role of Dads and Moms in Raising Children
00:04:15 Dad’s Role in Mentally Healthy Kids
00:11:35 Roughhousing and Disciplinarians: The Role of Fathers
00:13:20 The Decline of Fatherhood since the 1960s
00:14:47 Homelessness, Choices, and Mentorship
00:21:42 The Importance of Dads in Schools
00:23:42 Taking Control of Your Life and Being There for Your Kids
00:25:11 Mentoring Children for Success and Confidence
