Whether you have just been told or you have been going through this divorce for several months. You can make a change that will have a positive lasting impact on you and your family.
You have to decide do you want to truly be there for your kids or do you want to just stay in the same place?
Men struggle with finding that one thing that puts the fire in their belly. All they do is get up go to work come home watch some television. Then go to bed only to wake up the next morning and do it again.
Is that all there is to life? Be born go to work and then die? Why can’t you have something exciting happen? Where did your passionate loving bride go? Somewhere your bride was replaced with a woman that looks like her but she is distant. Which god did you anger so that you were put into a purgatory of mediocrity?
What if, Fulfillment was within you?
What if, that dream you had when you were younger was still there?
What if, You could find the passion in your marriage again?
What if, You could find success and meaning in your life?
What would you do?
Think about that for the moment. What would you do if you could follow your dreams? Why can’t you do just that? Listen to all those reasons why. What if those are just you keeping you playing small? Those lies you are telling yourself, what if you stopped believing in them? What would you do first?
You see that is why men don’t pursue their dreams they tell themselves all these reasons why they can’t and they listen to them. Hardly ever do they listen to the reasons why they can.
I help you rediscover the dream you have deep inside of you. I show you where you are standing in your way. I help show you how to get around that obstacle you believe to be impossible.
You could dream or you can stay in the same holding pattern you have been in this whole time. You can open up to the Wonderful Wildman that is caged up inside or you could just sit in front of the television and watch another game.
What if you could have a life of adventure and show your son what it is like to be a man. Be there for your kids so they can see why men are important. What if you could have your wife alongside you for that incredible journey?
I was in a similar boat as you. I was driving a truck burned out, frustrated, and dreading that phone call that it was time to roll again. I was watching my kids grow up from the cab of a truck. They were needing me and I wasn’t there. My marriage was that in name only.
There was no passion, no flirting. Sex was once every 4-5 months. I wasn’t living with a wonderful wild woman. I was married to a roommate.
Something had to change. I tried to get my wife to change and she wasn’t having it. Tried to change my kids and they would just push harder than before. So out of frustration, I said screw it and decided I was going to change. You see you have to fix yourself first. Making that change created a better relationship with my kids, my parents, and my wife. I found that the Nice Guy was the problem. Now this has only been a 4-year journey so far and so there is still a lot of work to be done but I am here to let you know that it is doable and worth it.
When you work with me, you will find that dream you stuffed way down. We will bring it out into the light and examine your thoughts behind that dream. Then working our way into trying that dream back on and see how well it fits. Helping you to start feeding your soul once more. We do this every other week with calls and there is a lot of work you have to do on your part.
We work on the thoughts you have concerning your wife, and your kids. You will see that you have had a choice presented to you all along. These new thoughts let you see that your wife wants you to lead your family. You will start to understand that your kids want a masculine father there for them. As you mentor them through the toughest parts of growing up. You can reach for your dreams and they can come true. You can have a life of traveling and being able to take your family on pioneering adventures. This is possible if we work together.
If you’re struggling with thoughts or limitations around what is making you play small in life, then getting coached by Bryan is your next best step.
No more feeling frustrated, lost, or hopeless about being a victim.
Getting coached by Bryan will help you overcome your self-confidence blocks and discover what is truly possible in you