The problem with love is that people see it as painful. They fall in love. They go mad for someone. They are stricken or smitten with love. That is one issue the speaker had with our metaphors for love. Many times we look at love as being violent or very uncomfortable.
Yet instead of looking at love as being some form of misery that feels great why not express love as what it really is? Her thoughts are different enough that I wanted to share them with you