Why are there more single men than women? This overarching question is posed by the host of the show The Roommates to Jordan Peterson. The discussion covers an assortment of questions and several great points made by Jordan Peterson.
Girls will play boy’s games but boys won’t play girl’s games
Jordan Peterson at 2 minute mark
The discussion also turns to how marketing and messaging are leading girls to school but not pointing boys in the same direction. In fact, it would appear that the message is that boys are not nearly as important as girls.
Now Dr Peterson says something powerful in the discussion is that if the girls aren’t picking you it is because they are right. You have to make yourself more attractive to the class of girl you are wanting to date and marry. You can’t be just a common working stiff. You have to be able to propel yourself above the crowd. Women are attracted to men who are more successful. If you aren’t interested in getting a degree then you have to find success somewhere else.
This means that you have to prove yourself. You can’t just stand there and talk about how many followers you have on the instas. You have to actually put the work in to get the reward. You have to delay your instant gratification for the bigger prize of the higher quality girl. That is just how life works.
The discussion covers how you have to make yourself more attractive. You can’t point the finger that you are unattractive to the fairer sex as it being their fault. If you haven’t bathed in a few days and you look pastie and out of shape then you are not going to be as attractive. If you are overweight you aren’t going to be attractive. Sitting on your butt and being angry at women because they won’t choose you to sleep with isn’t their problem. It is yours and you have to make the changes needed to actually get out there and make yourself attractive.
You have to apply the 4 pillars of a relaxed male to be able to find a good woman.
